A photograph of Sally Glendinning at a wedding

Sally Glendining's story

Anne talks about the loss of her daughter, Sally, to group B meningococcal meningitis in 2011.

Sally, or Sal as she liked to be called, was a beautiful young lady. A mind of her own, Sal had a happy upbringing and was never a one to complain when she was poorly, which she never often was. She was a bright bubbly girl, and at the age of 17 enjoying life to the full. Sal could walk into a room and make the sun shine – the life and soul of every party.

 

First symptoms

Just before Christmas 2010, Sally was suffering from a bad cold, and didn’t go into her Saturday job at Dorothy Perkins as she had a sore throat and stuffy nose. She was still on holiday from sixth form, and after a New Year’s evening out with me and her dad, she was feeling much better and returned to school and work after the New Year.

Sal worked in the shop on the Tuesday, and then on Wednesday 4th January, was back in sixth form for a half day. It was to be the final time Sal went to school.

On the Wednesday evening, she said she had an awful sore throat and bad head, and she had had a very sharp pain in her eye. She was still in good spirits, and on her laptop with her friend laughing and joking.

 

‘Very unwell’

At 10.30pm that same evening, Sally’s sister Laura woke me saying Sally was really very unwell and upset. Sally had a high temperature and was shaking severely and being sick, so I rang the out-of-hours GP and was told to take her there at 12.50am after giving her more paracetamol.

When we arrived, Sally was much brighter again, and was checked over by the doctor, who said to take her home and keep treating her as we had, because she had flu. He said a day in bed the next day would be the best treatment.

It was the longest night of our lives, and we were being told to prepare for the worst.

All day Thursday, Sally just wanted to sleep, so her dad kept calling in to check on her. At 6.15pm, Laura and I went up to see Sally as we had been at work. She was in a terrible state, being sick, crying, saying her head was sore. I called our own GP immediately, as I was very concerned. The doctor said they had had hundreds of calls that day with the same symptoms, and that he would leave a script at the chemist but he doubted antibiotics would be of any help.

 

Rushed to hospital

Around 8.30pm Sally screamed for us, and we ran up to find her delirious thrashing about and unable to communicate properly with us. She was rushed to hospital, and from that moment it was touch and go. She had a CT scan and was put into an induced coma with tubes everywhere.

That was the longest night of our lives, and we were being told to prepare for the worst. Sally was pronounced braindead at 2pm on Friday 7th January 2011.

We miss her dearly x

 

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